Monday, January 23, 2012

J + D
Date #3

At Home Date:
Movie Night

After a super-fun evening with the kiddos at a very parent-friendly kiddo birthday party, we put the kids to bed, got in our jammies, watched the snow fall for a few minutes, and then snuggled up to this movie:

CRAZY STUPID LOVE

We didn't know anything about it, nor did we expect much.
BUT WE LOVED IT!
(the trailer doesn't do it justice)

I'm not even hesitant to say that I think I'm going to buy it.
It was hilarious and sweet and thoughtful and totally great.
Go see it with your honey! 

Thursday, January 12, 2012

GAME NIGHT

D + T (Date #   )
C + B (Date #   )
J + D (2012 Date #2)

Game Night
D and I have decided to revamp out date nights this year by organizing them a little differently.  We've decided that one week a month will be for a temple date night (without kids), one for a game night with friends (where kids are invited--since they tend to play the games with us anyway--and we can still have adult time), one for an alone date (going out without kiddos) and one that's either a home-date or a family date.

For us, that's easier because
3 of 4 dates = Potentially FREE
2 of 4 dates = Don't need babysitters
2 or 3 of 4 dates = Just US alone still
2 of 4 dates = Potentially at home
2 of 4 dates = Potentially with friends

We figured by trying it this way, we'd be more apt to stay on the ball without feeling guilty about leaving the kids (which I realize we shouldn't feel that way, but we often do), spending the money, or having to trade/find babysitters so often.  
We'll see how it works out for us as we go along...

Anyway, our date night was super fun!
We had D&T and C&B over for a game called QUIDDLER, a big bowl of popcorn, a pan of brownies, a package of oreos, and some other assorted fingerfoods.

We laughed, we had a great time, we didn't worry about getting back to the kids, and best of all,
I won the game. :)
Laughing.
Here we ladies are--including C's darling baby girl P.
Such a great crowd!

Thanks again for coming!
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Friday, January 6, 2012

Dinner with the Big Guys

J + D
2012 Date #1

Tonight we were invited to a dinner party with the Executive Leadership Group of our church
and though we were a little nervous about going
(mostly because we didn't know who would be there nor what we'd talk about with whomever was there)
it ended up being a pleasant evening.

We sat with a handful of couples who are mostly our parents' ages or older
and had a delightful time hearing everyone's stories of how they met their spouse and
how it all lead up to their marriage.

We laughed and were pleased to feel comfortable afterall.

We were served HAWAIIAN HAYSTACKS and played a few games
with everyone afterward.

The one thing we took from this date was that you can't always assume
fun can only be had with those you feel most comfortable with.

It was a great learning experience
and a great evening for us both!

J + D Playing CatchUp

J + D
Dates 38-47ish

First off, its been a whole year since we started "dating" regularly again.
I must say that it has been an AWESOME and CRAZY and BUSY year for us....
So first, here's a quick anniversary movie I made for the hubb...


We've had several dates that I haven't posted on here for 2 reasons
1..repeats of things we have already done
2..having had the time to sit down and punch it out

So here I am...at the start of a new year:

Dates 38-42 I'll give credit to at-home movie watching.
For about 8 weeks I was INCREDIBLY sick
(thank you non-credited-due-to-not-being-appropriate-on-this-blog babymaking dates :))
so we (I) spent a lot of time on the couch
watching movies
And D would often lay beside me so sweetly.
I wish I could say that at I was this perky and happy....
but I'm still counting them as dates...


Next on the list are our 3 mega fun Christmas parties we were able to attend without babies...
(Dates 43,44,45)

1: Our annual Christmas party that we throw for all of our bestest friends
(a total success--I didn't even feel sick)
2: My work's party at a fancy schmancy country club where we got all gussied up together for
dinner and a hilarous white elephant exchange
3: A fondu party where we nearly hit a deer and ate so much dippable food we came home nearly puking.
All were so fun to go to together.
I have the bestest dating partner. :)


Date 46
consisted of staying up SUPER late Christmas Eve and wrapping gifts together, placing them strategically under the Christmas Tree, and acting joyously like Santa and Mrs. Claus.
Why doesn't she have a NAME?
We were more excited about Christmas Morning than the kiddos were...
Being a parent at Christmas time is SO SO SO fun!

And then Date #47
 was saved for our Anniversary, just a few days after Christmas.
We always go to the temple on our Anniversary, so that's what we did again.
Its my favorite thing to do on our special day...
And then we got some take-out from one of our favorite places and hurried home to put the kiddos down to bed. so we could have the rest of the evening together.

We didn't make it to 52 dates this year, but 47ish isn't all that bad.
We've made a new goal to start up again FRESH and EXCITED for 2012 and 
we're excited that our first official date of 2012 is TONIGHT!!!
Yay for Dating!